TIRING WEDNESDAY

I think if I've learned anything about love, it's to hang in, stay connected, fight for them, and let them fight for you. Don't walk away, don't be distracted, don't be too busy or tired, don't take them for granted. Lovers are part of the glue that holds life and faith together. Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.

Sadly , I cannot be with someone who takes pleasure in inflicting pain on me, someone who can’t love me. I am always ashamed of myself nowadays. The pulse of life has always filled me with a peculiar rage to destroy. When I think of two beings in love, I experience an agonising sensation; by virtue of some bizarre backlash, there is something which smothers and oppresses me, and I suffocate, to the point of anguish.

The healthy man does not torture others - generally it is the tortured who turn into torturers. For the first time I had dimly realized that only the hopeless are starkly sincere and that only the unhappy can either give or take sympathy--even some of the bitter and dangerous voluptuousness of misery.I'm fifty shades of fucked up rainbow . Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.

Good friends, good books, and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life. Words are easy, like the wind; Faithful friends are hard to find. Nobody likes being alone that much. I don't go out of my way to make friends, that's all. It just leads to disappointment. If you have good friends, no matter how much life is sucking , they can make you laugh.

I love the people in my life, and I do for my friends whatever they need me to do for them, again and again, as many times as is necessary. For example, in your case you always forgot who you are and how much you're loved. So what I do for you as your friend is remind you who you are and tell you how much I love you. And this isn't any kind of burden for me, because I love who you are very much. Every time I remind you, I get to remember with you, which is my pleasure.

The beginning of love is the will to let those we love be perfectly themselves, the resolution not to twist them to fit our own image. If in loving them we do not love what they are, but only their potential likeness to ourselves, then we do not love them: we only love the reflection of ourselves we find in them. The worst part of love is trying to find someone who is happy for you and your friends .